It has come to my attention that the international option is becoming more and more appealing to Black men. Cabals such as EBM (Escape Black Men), SYSBM (Save Yourself Black Men) and others are promoting Black men going overseas to find higher quality women.
From my perspective, there is nothing wrong with this in and of itself. With only one life to live, why shouldn’t we explore our options and take the best that we can get? Why shouldn’t we strive to attain more?
Men of other races have sought out opportunities in far off lands for centuries. The European has been the master of this, having conquered and colonized nearly the entire world. The descendants of these conquerors still reap the spoils of the campaigns of their forefathers. Whether it be casual sex or employment, a White man can achieve rockstar status just by flying to Asia, even if they are not considered a prize in their homeland. This phenomenon has been referred to as “Charisma Man” or “Loser Back Home.”
Black Male Losers Back Home
The term “Loser Back Home,” or “LBH” is generally used to describe White men that were nerds, considered too ugly to get girls, or unemployable that suddenly have easy access to jobs and women overseas, particularly in East Asia. It is a term that is typically used by three classes of people:
- White LBHs that got to a destination earlier and want to remain the “Special” White man
- Bitter foreign women (fempats) that are used to getting attention, when the shoe is now on the other foot
- Jealous Black men that wish that we could get the same treatment that the super-duper White guys get
Although the term primarily refers to White guys abroad (especially in Asia), can it apply to Black men too?
Absolutely. Maybe the reasons that Black men would fall into the LBH category are different from those of the White guy, and maybe he will not get the same godlike treatment overseas, but there exist Black men that might not be able to takeoff in their home countries that find success abroad. There is no shame in this. The only problem is that many of us that are losers back home remain losers in far-off lands.
Enter the Passport Playa
So, the Black nerd, aspiring basketball player, introverted lame, or subpar physical specimen is tired of living that incel life or dealing with “Boondifa” or the shit-tier White and Hispanic women in his locale. Or perhaps the best employment that he can attain is multiple part-time jobs. He watched a video on Oshay’s channel and was hyped up by Black men talking about how much ass they got on a forum. He decides that he wants to get his passport and go abroad.
Now, he is a Passport Playa.
After spending several months in his new location, however, he realizes that he is still being treated like shit. He isn’t getting any of the poontang that he thought he would, and his job teaching English absolutely sucks.
He thought that he was going to fall off the plane and between the legs of a big-bootied Latina or (if he has good taste like I do) thought that a real-life Chun Li was going to do a Spinning Bird Kick and hop on his dick.
Sorry, fellows. Refer to the first section of this post when I stated that the European has been the master of conquest. In their conquests, do you think that they have promoted an environment for you to thrive in? Have you done anything to create an environment for you and your kind to excel in, or did you just sit around jerking your meat, dreaming of that hot, exotic foreign woman you would be getting with after your twelve-hour flight?
“Got yourself that Asia flight, make sure your skin is white you will be a celebrity overnight.”
Yeah, it is unrealistic in this world to dream of Black men as a whole being in a station of social power amongst others. So, did you at least try to learn some of the local language and lift weights? No? Therein lies your problem.
White men and other races of men are seen as having innate value. Even if they are complete pieces of shit as individuals, they are members of successful collectives. This allows them to behave as the same losers that they were back home while magically becoming rockstars abroad.
Seek Power in Your Actions
Too many Black men in the “Passport Playa Collective” are dreamers. They dream of exotic women and all the sex that they are going to get. Once the flight touches down, however, they are sorely disappointed. Some of these guys end up with gold diggers, green card chasers, or shit-tier local women. In their minds, a woman that looks like E. Honda in a wig might not be the Chun Li that they dreamed of, but it’s better than what they could get back home, if they could get anything at all.
These guys are unwilling to do the work that would make them more attractive, or more powerful as individuals or as a collective.
Believe me, it is difficult to get up and push yourself when you cannot even get the base need of busting a nut with an attractive at least decent women met. It can be demoralizing and depressing. What makes my approach different from the TFLer, however, is that I will continue to work on myself wherever I am, even if it yields no results in my present location. Since I have been working on improving myself, I will have greater fortitude when I journey to my next station. The locals will likely be more appreciative of me having something to present as well.
Put the anime, baby oil, and video games down. Pick up some books, listen to some informative podcasts, and pick up some weights before getting that plane ticket. If you do this, you might not get Chun Li, but you won’t have to settle for Ug Li.
Don’t Only Focus on Sex
There was a time when Japan was the premier place in Asia to go for Black men. However, due to the trajectory of global culture and the lack of Black male staying power, that is a mere (and often overexaggerated) footnote in history. Men focusing on the easy sex that they could get in niche hip-hop clubs wasted opportunities to do greater things. Had more Black men tried to understand the culture of Japan and make in-roads into social groups outside of the hip-hop heads, perhaps we would have a more diversified image, and perhaps Black men of all stripes could have sought opportunity in Japan, not just sexually, but in enterprise as well.
A “feast or famine” mindset is a dangerous thing to have in this current age. Once again, I understand. I was the kid that wasn’t getting laid in high school, so when I arrived in Osaka, for once surrounded by women I was attracted to, I leapt at the opportunity.
Years later, in China, I became more observant. I am not skilled enough to open a Chinese restaurant. However, my ex-girlfriend taught me how to make enough authentic Chinese food that at the very least I do not have to reach into my pocket to fund Susie Chan’s White cock adventure at the university. Cultural appropriation is grand when you are the one reaping the benefits.
Have your fun, but keep in mind that if you want to continue having fun, you will need a means of garnering and protecting resources and social clout. Hip-hop was cool for a decade; power is always in vogue.
In Conclusion
Black men should think about traveling overseas. Throw away all delusions of grandeur. Realize that those men of other nations that went before you did not pave a way for you. Instead, pave your own way. Take advantage of opportunities, but do not over-exploit them so that there is nothing left to harvest next season. Instead, you must cultivate. Remember to think of the long-term strategy. This goes tenfold if you are planning to have a family abroad or with a woman that you meet overseas.
When dealing with women, remember the Three General Orders:
- No fatties, no fuglies, no faggots.
- No dusties, no degenerates, no dipshits.
- Protect yourself at all times.
Enjoy your time abroad, but remember that if you want to keep enjoying it, you must plan and build for the future. At the very least, try to offer realistic information about opportunities for the Brothers back home and tactics that can be used to surmount obstacles that we may face. If you are unable to raise your thoughts, behavior, and situation above that of a peon in your travels, it isn’t worth traveling at all.